Banking on Attention: How to Wisely Invest Your Focus in High Conflict Divorce and Child Custody Cases
In the world of high-conflict divorce and child custody cases, attention can be as valuable as currency. This is especially true when you find yourself dealing with a toxic narcissistic ex. They crave your attention, thrive on your reactions, and often use conflict as a way to maintain control. But remember this: you are the bank, and your attention is your most valuable asset. You have control over who you "loan" it to, and it's crucial to invest it wisely.
Attention as Currency
Think of your attention as the money in a bank. Each day, you have a certain amount of this currency to spend. You can choose to invest it in positive, productive activities that enrich your life and the lives of your children. Alternatively, you could squander it on the draining antics of a narcissistic ex. The latter will deplete your emotional reserves, leaving you exhausted and less capable of effectively managing your case.
The Savvy Banker Approach
A savvy banker doesn't loan money to unreliable individuals who won't pay it back with interest. They invest in worthwhile ventures that promise a return. Similarly, you should invest your attention in activities and people that bring value to your life.
For instance, focus on building a strong case for court. Dive deep into the details, gather and organize your evidence, evaluate your witness list, and keep a daily journal of relevant happenings. By investing your attention here, you're likely to see a return in the form of a more favorable outcome in court.
The Legal Landscape: Case Law and Statutes
Let's put this banking analogy into a legal context. In most jurisdictions, the best interests of the child is the gold standard in child custody cases. Courts look at a variety of factors to determine this, including the mental and physical health of parents, the child's ties to school and community, and evidence of parental behavior, including any history of abuse or neglect.
Invest your attention in understanding these factors and how they apply to your case. If you're dealing with a narcissistic ex, they may attempt to manipulate these factors to their advantage while getting you to focus on non-important issues like defending yourself against their absurdity. By familiarizing yourself with the law, you're better equipped to counter these tactics.
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Remember: You are the bank. You control where your attention goes. Invest it wisely.
