Winning the Battle: Two Mindset Shifts for Success in High Conflict Family Court Cases
Family court cases can be emotionally draining and highly stressful for everyone involved, especially if you’re dealing with a toxic and narcissistic ex. It's not uncommon for people to feel like they're stuck in a never-ending cycle of conflict and frustration. However, there are two mindset shifts that can help you get results in high conflict family court cases.
1. Solutions-Based Questions
The first mindset shift is to make your questions solutions-based, not problems-based. When you focus on the problem, you tend to get stuck in a negative mindset, which can lead to more conflict and frustration. Instead, focus on finding solutions to the problem. Ask yourself, "What can I do to make this situation better?" or "What steps can I take to resolve this issue?" Do this instead of asking problems-based questions like, “Why does this always happen to me?” or “Why do I always feel like this?'“ This will help you shift your mindset from one of defeat to one of empowerment. Plus, it will help you find solutions a lot more quickly which will help get results in your family court case.
2. Stop Looking For Angels And Start Looking For Angles
The second mindset shift is to stop looking for angels and start looking for angles. This quote from Ryan Holiday's book, The Obstacle is the Way, means that instead of waiting for someone to come and save you, you need to start looking for ways to solve the problem yourself.
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In high conflict family court cases, it's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that someone else will fix the problem for you. However, the reality is that you are the only one who can take action to resolve the conflict. This shift will also open your eyes to strategies and paths to victory that you may not have seen previously. It’s great to be spiritual and wonderful to pray, but make sure you’re always seeking the strategy or angle that can lead you to a favorable result in your divorce or custody battle.
These two mindset shifts can help you get results in high conflict family court cases. By focusing on solutions and taking action yourself, you can break the cycle of conflict and frustration. Remember, the key to success is to stay positive, stay focused, and keep moving forward. With the right mindset and a willingness to take action, you can achieve the results you want in your family court case.
If you haven’t already, be sure to take a look at Judge Anthony’s free masterclass, “How To Beat A Narcissist In Custody Court So You Can Finally Get Some Peace.”
